(via Follow Me Here)
Saturday, October 09, 2010
Mother Nature knows her stuff
(via Follow Me Here)
Friday, October 08, 2010
Two bits on Getting Things Done
Two interesting things have come across my desk this week in the realm of Finishing Things, both of which offer great tips for thinking about your goals and managing the tasks along the way.
(first via Medley, 2nd via Rebecca's Pocket)
- Bre Pettis offers a manifesto from the Cult of Done, whose 13 pointed tenets include these winners:
2. Accept that everything is a draft. It helps to get it done.
4. Pretending you know what you're doing is almost the same as knowing what you are doing, so just accept that you know what you're doing even if you don't and do it.
10. Failure counts as done. So do mistakes. - Finishing a Game, another post with lots of tips for thinking about projects, setting up collaborations, and actually bringing it all together.
If you treat finishing like a skill, rather than simply a step in the process, you can acknowledge not only that it’s something you can get better at, but also what habits and thought processes get in your way.
(first via Medley, 2nd via Rebecca's Pocket)
Wednesday, October 06, 2010
Grading on a curve
Tuesday, October 05, 2010
Dynamics of group problem-solving
Couple of interesting things about this study of group intelligence:
(via Medley)
- it is something other than a sum of the individuals that make up the group (seemingly having more to do with how well those people work together),
- the number of women in the group was linked to its problem-solving ability.
(via Medley)
Monday, October 04, 2010
The stuff of nightmares
A view of mechanically separated chicken, the predecessor of MacNuggets and their kin. Scary what has to be done to it to make it seem like food . . .
(via Medley)
Update: the original post is riddled with errors. The truth is probably disturbing enough.
(via Medley)
Update: the original post is riddled with errors. The truth is probably disturbing enough.
Long overdue baby-blogging!
Has taken a couple of days' free time to process my backlog of photos (with videos still to come), but finally have uploaded some Speck cutenss from June through September, including her first County Fair, some travels domestic and foreign, and other general chaos. Anyway, will dole them out here over the next couple of weeks. First installment, Around-the-House Summer Silliness! (all from around 29 months)

Buried in a bucket of bristle blocks!

Taking Mr. Pop-pop for a walk

Pretending to nap, all tucked in with fuzzy friends
Tune in next week for highlights from the Reading County fair!
Buried in a bucket of bristle blocks!
Taking Mr. Pop-pop for a walk
Pretending to nap, all tucked in with fuzzy friends
Tune in next week for highlights from the Reading County fair!
Friday, October 01, 2010
Lemonade
Man, this story was a bummer, but how absolutely fantastic, heartwarming, tear-inducing to see this great response: It Gets Better. If only that kid could have heard them in time. Heck, the same is true for any kid who feels like the "only one" -- you probably aren't, and you'll find the others if you just give yourself time. There's a niche out there for you, and it just gets better.
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Other people's business
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
Quote of the day
(via A.W.A.D.)
If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality.
- - Desmond Tutu,
clergyman (b. 1931)
With friends like these...
I know it must be hard to be a Democrat from some of the crazy more conservative states, but still, moves like this Landrieu hold make me grit my teeth . . .
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Tenacious disaffection
I agree with Obama's call to stand up, and I want to encourage my local voters to turn out in November (especially to prevent a crazy man to the right of Santorum from becoming my state's US Senator!), but I also have sympathy for these views. I would never think of staying home on Election Day, because the differences do matter, but the amount of my personal funds and energy that are going into the political realm is decreasing. Other parts of my life have been neglected to some degree, and many of those offer much more reward for investment.

It worries me that I feel this way. How much more so those who don't really see the differences?
Update: more useful pushback here, including this:
It worries me that I feel this way. How much more so those who don't really see the differences?
Update: more useful pushback here, including this:
I think progressives in general have to decide whether to work when the work is easy, or work when the work is hard. It was definitely comparatively easy to work for Obama two years ago, because there was idealism, hope, and a kind of certainty that if only we could elect him, then everything would change and it would somehow be easy, despite the campaign's best efforts to tell us that change is hard. It hasn't been easy, and now we're witnessing a population make the choice on whether to roll up their sleeves or sit on their hands.I also think there was such relief to be rid of Bush (and to have avoided the bullet of McCain) that we wanted to bask for a while. But the opposition made sure we didn't get much to wallow in, and we can't let their obstructionism get the upper hand. Tally ho!
Monday, September 27, 2010
Link dump, several themes
I know that this stuff would be better in smaller installments, but the combination of general time-crunch with lingering jet-lag is totally killing my blogging time. Better a heap than never.
Grumpy news
Parenting bits
Silliness and thoughtfulness
Grumpy news
- U.S. Is Bankrupt and We Don't Even Know It whee
- FBI probes were improper, Justice says -- surprise! the FBI used 9/11 as an excuse to add liberal activists to terrorist watch lists. How long ago do the 1960s feel now?? Civil disobediance still scares The Man inordinately...
- Obama can learn from 'Godfather' -- being President should mean powers you can use. Of course, the author presumes that this oversight is accidental, rather than a fundamental feature of Obama's character; I think he likes to be a facilitator, not directly leverage action. Frustrating to watch!
- The wrong way to answer Ms. Velma Hart -- more on the President's falling short
- Do Not Pity the Democrats -- this takes the grim up a notch, pointing out that partisan politics are rather dwarfed by the growing and inappropriate power of corporations in modern America. A call to local organizing, whether for financial control, political reform, or just to put some counterweights out there against the monolithic oligarchy that is increasingly blind to the public at large.
- In the nonpolitical realm, 'Halfalogue': Overheard cell-phone conversations are not only annoying but reduce our attention -- our ability to think and reason are actually more disrupted by half a conversation than by having both halves in our auditory space. Interesting.
- Which is the gay one? My feeling about Don't Ask, Don't Tell in a nutshell!
Parenting bits
- Things That Never Happen -- putting the frequency of things like child abductions into perspective:
The very definition of news is "something that almost never happens."
- Let Adults Hang Out at the Playground (Even if They Don't Have Kids) -- laws against this gut the meaning of "neighborhood"...
- related: 5 Worries Parents Should Drop, And 5 They Shouldn't
- Preschoolers use statistics to understand others -- spiffy bit of deduction there
- Fostering Your Toddler's Independent Play -- tips on gradual weaning from purely parent-led games; more here.
- Homeroom Security: a book about the insanity of zero-tolerance classroom policies, something I expect to encounter in a few years
- “What do you saay…?” Nooo Thanks! -- alternative ways to teach children polite behavior (like modelling!!)
- St. Louis' newish City Museum looks so creative and fantastical that it makes me want to invent an excuse to go back there! I wanna play too!!
Silliness and thoughtfulness
- I had *no* idea that the Miss Universe pageant featured an entry of extravagent national costumes, but it does, and these image collections, complete with snarky commentary, just cracked me up!!
- Dancing in the movies -- a montage that just makes you want to get out there and move! joyous.
- Repairing a Sexist Cartoon -- both frustrating and hilarious, in several takes.
- how to be alone -- a quiet video on making peace with solitude.
- Real Live Preacher offers Gentle Suggestions for Doubting Christians, nice indeed.
Tuesday, September 21, 2010
Two amusing iPad bits
Two things that amused me today:
- An Etch-a-sketch case -- if only it interfaced with software! heh.
- We can benefit from these gizmos without even owning them: some restaurants are offering iPad wine menus to allow customers to research their offerings and make more informed choices.
Monday, September 20, 2010
Quote of the day
(via whiskey river)
It's hard to remember that this day will never come again. That the time is now and the place is here and that there are no second chances at a single moment.
- - Jeanette Winterson
Thursday, September 02, 2010
Vive la difference!
I sure wish more folks would think this way, that making up narratives about the Right Way to live, worship, parent, vote, etc., and then getting angry about people with Other Approaches is just a waste of energy, and we could all use a little more space to breathe. 'Cause we surely all could. And nobody lives their life just to spite somebody else.
(via Medley)
(via Medley)
Tuesday, August 31, 2010
[tap, tap] Is this thing on?
Caught in a whirlwind between two trips, a change of planned fall nursery schools, and replacement of family room floor and couches. All a bit much for my head, and hence for my blogging rate. Anyway, wanted to showcase these images that I loved from the aptly named and strangely addictive blog Things Organized Neatly. Good to exercise those visual muscles once in a while...
(via kottke)
Friday, August 20, 2010
Can't leave you hangin'!
Thursday, August 19, 2010
My barbaric yawp
- Atrios notes a sensible policy that would help us through these challenging economic times, but probably won't even get discussed.
- It's certainly not a good sign for the recovery when people cause riots just lining up for Secion 8 housing!
- Here's a good point, about both current (infuriating) affairs and the weaknesses of the Democratic party.
- Speaking of good points, pithily put, here's one about language and Othering (or the definition of normal).
(via NowThis) - Here's a good essay: The Real Struggle Behind Climate Change: A War on Expertise
As part of a more general assault on the very notion of expertise, the narrative starts with a truism that is actually true:
Interesting points here about the culture of science that gets overlooked (e.g., ambitious post docs are always looking for holes in their elders' theories, in order to make names for themselves, yet the "critics" assume that everyone involved is a "sell-out" marching in lock-step)...
"Not every smart person is wise..."
only then extrapolates it, implicitly, to a blatant falsehood
"all smartypants are unwise, all the time; and my uninformed opinion is equal to any expert testimony." - Related (but funnier): If sports got reported like science... -- why do we presume it reasonable to require all sorts of esoteric knowledge in our recreation that we find unbearable in more serious matters?
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Thursday, August 12, 2010
Counterintuitive
The idea that going without traffic signals (or designing around them) actually makes intersections more efficient and less dangerous just blows my mind. Taking advantage of the power of human ability to negotiate such meetings with minimal signals and communications. Pretty neat.
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
Not what his family has planned
...but this seems the appropriate blogger memorial for Ted Stevens. After all, I heard about the plane crash via the Internet pipes...
Getting better all the time
When you hear somebody say that the recession is over, don't you believe it. More and more people are tightening their belts, and that's not good for our long-term prospects...
A willful return to the dark ages?
Monday, August 09, 2010
Terrible things, wonderful things
Terrible things
- Handy tools for keeping track of your kids become deadly in the hands of abusive stalkers and spouses. A word to the wise.
(via FreeRangeKids tweets) - I had this same response to the Michele Obama anti-obesity campaign -- can't you focus on fitness rather than further stigmatizing fat kids? jeez.
(via Alas a Blog) - America would rather unravel its civilization than take a few extra tax %'s from those who are doing ok or spend money to perk the economy back up. What on earth?!
(via Atrios)
- There's new evidence that there may have been no Big Bang, but rather that the universe has no beginning or end. Should be interesting to see how this is received both in the scientific community and as it impacts widespread humanistic philosophy.
(via Follow Me Here) - Some scientists have managed to harness the powerful pattern-recognition abilities of the human brain to improve the performance of a protein-folding algorithm. Neat as a concept -- gaming as cloud computing -- and as an application where non-experts can contribute in a meaningful way.
Sunday, August 08, 2010
Live and let live
Fareed Zakaria has this exactly right. And I think he was both brave and honorable in returning his award from the ADL, whose involvement in this entire issue is downright shameful.
Friday, August 06, 2010
A few cheerful bits for Friday
Just a few, to leaven the usual doom and gloom...

- Billionaires Pledge To Spread the Wealth -- Warren Buffet induces a landslide of largesse among his peers.
- National Night Out -- one kid recreates an environment for unstructured neighborhood play, reminding a lot of parents that the end of their yards isn't the end of the world (and making a couple of new friends along the way)!
- It Made My Day -- folks sharing the little episodes along the way that brightened their day or gave them a laugh.
Thursday, August 05, 2010
Another chink in the wall
Edit: seems right to add this bit of snark... Yep.
Wednesday, August 04, 2010
Exactly right
One of the most on-point things I've seen this year: Sexual Assault Prevention Tips Guaranteed to Work!
(via a Medley tweet)
7. USE THE BUDDY SYSTEM! If you are not able to stop yourself from assaulting people, ask a friend to stay with you while you are in public.Imagine!
(via a Medley tweet)
Tuesday, August 03, 2010
Digital divide
This is different from the ubiquity of connection provided by constant messanging and the like, but related, in that it represents a change in our definition of friends and in our ways of building meaning, and also a shift from viewing a computer as a tool to seeing it as a transparent access to a separate set of spaces out there in the cloud. You either have a visceral understanding of this or you are missing a mode of awareness of the world.
(link via rc3.org)
Really, this quote applies to so many parts of government these days
...that I sort of hate to narrow it down:
'While we appreciate your desire to revise the statute to reflect your expansive vision of it, the fact is that we must work with the actual language of the statute, not the aspirational version' that [Agency] had provided."heheh...
Monday, August 02, 2010
Quote of the day
(via whiskey river)
How strange it is. We have these deep terrible lingering fears about ourselves and the people we love. Yet we walk around, talk to people, eat and drink. We manage to function. The feelings are deep and real. Shouldn't they paralyze us? How is it we can survive them, at least for a little while? We drive a car, we teach a class. How is it no one sees how deeply afraid we were, last night, this morning? Is it something we all hide from each other, by mutual consent? Or do we share the same secret without knowing it? Wear the same disguise?
- - Don DeLillo
sam & sara motel
Friday, July 30, 2010
Mr. Smith is a little pissed off
That is, Sen. Weiner takes his GOP colleagues to task for filibustering health aid to 9/11 responders.
Weiner attacked those who "stand up and say, 'Oh, if only we had a different process we'd vote yes.' You vote yes if you believe yes! You vote in favor of something if you believe it's the right thing! If you believe it's the wrong thing, you vote no!"Really worth watching the video -- genuine righteous anger seems in short supply in these crazy times of kibuki partisan bickering, and it does the heart good.
"It is a shame! A shame," he exclaimed.
Friday baby-blogging: boot camp for toddlers
"Hit that playground, yes we can! Take the kids on, man-on-man. Climb the slide and push the swing; we can do most anything! Sound off.... get wet.... 1-2-3-4: play now, some more!!"

Up that ladder, up, up!

Across the moat, stretch, jump!

Hang from that bar! now give me pull-ups!
(what, no? ok then, down you go!)
Up that ladder, up, up!
Across the moat, stretch, jump!
Hang from that bar! now give me pull-ups!
(what, no? ok then, down you go!)
Thursday, July 29, 2010
A small blow for sanity
Well! unexpected good thing of the week: disparity in drug sentencing reduced. Not sure what the rationale is for keeping the remining differential, but every little bit helps...
(via a tweet from FreeRangeKids)
(via a tweet from FreeRangeKids)
It's hard to sustain activism
I agree with Matthew Yglesias that progressive activists are depressed -- not so much in terms of literal mood, but in terms of the sense of hope that anything can be accomplished. The Obama record has been mixed and on many fronts disappointing, and onetime (or potential) activists are simply redirecting their energies into parts of their lives more likely to reward the investment. Perhaps large-scale movements inevitably run out of steam after a few years, and perhaps the absence of Bush-fueled rage has speeded that deflation, but I think that there are still a lot of folks who would get back in the trenches if something made them think it would make a difference. There's just not a lot of tangible evidence out there to encourage them...

Wednesday, July 28, 2010
Wednesday link roundup: Bits related to kids and parenting
- This is a sad tribute to the state of modern America: Why I Didn't Help a Lost Girl. I suspect that fear of being branded a pervert probably keeps all sorts of men, parents or otherwise, from having meaningful interactions with the kids in their communities.
- The same sentiment is captured by this comic routine.
- Also bucking the received wisdom, 'Don't Talk to Strangers' is Dangerous Advice. It's more important to learn whom to avoid and whom to run toward in an emergency!
- From the Department of Snark comes this advice column exchange in which a single friend suspects that her stay-at-home-mom friend is just lounging around all day doing nothing. I have to say that I thought that the columnist's tone was not entirely out of line, although I will also admit that no amount of warning could have prepared me for how entirely a baby or small child can absorb all available time and energy from its caretakers.
- On the sublime parental artistry front, I offer this blog of baby daydreams as imagined (and made real) by the mother of a newborn; it's the cutest! But man! in those early days, nobody in my household was functional enough to even consider such an enterprise!
- And finally, from the Department of Entertaining Toddlers and Their Parents Too: Sesame Street makes a segment based on Mad Men. So right and so wrong...
Tuesday, July 27, 2010
Taking charge of your response
I think this talk is one of the most inspiring things I've seen lately. One woman's ability to make overcoming her injury into a role-playing game, involving her friends and relatives, is a testament to mind over matter (or, you know, mind over brainmatter), and to old-fashioned community-supported cures over modern medicine. And, you know, just a brilliant way to make lemonade.
Friday, July 23, 2010
Secret language
I love this article about the private language developed by couples over time. My spouse and I already have a wealth of inside jokes and references and figure that by the time we've been married 25 years, we'll be completely incomprehensible to others. Of course, with kids around, it only gets worse, as all their favorite books, zany mishaps, and malaprops become incorporated into family lore. Hopefully detangling the content from the insider hugging will become part of a future lesson in Knowing Your Audience, but it's possible we'll just become more and more eccentric . . .
Thursday, July 22, 2010
Economic policies that might surprise you
- Raising the retirement age gets a lot of discussion right now, and Ezra Klein notes that life expectancy has been going up for high wage earners but not so much for those at the bottom of the spectrum. Another policy that bludgeons the already overworked and underpaid.
(via rc3.org) - From the Department of Republican hypocrisy, a chart that compares the long-term effects of the estate-tax cuts (that they love) with those of the unemployment benefits (that they hate). Guess which one really screws the deficit??
(via rebecca's pocket) - I hope that a special place in hell is reserved for people with job openings saying that the unemployed need not apply. That should really pull the economy out of its current hole!!
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
Quote of the day
(via whiskey river)
One moment it was there, another moment it is gone. One moment we are here, and another moment we have gone. And for this simple moment, how much fuss we make! How much violence, ambition, struggle, conflict, anger, hatred, just for this small moment! Just waiting for the train in a waiting room in a station, and creating so much fuss: fighting, hurting each other, trying to possess, trying to boss, trying to dominate - all the politics. And then the train comes and you are gone forever.
- - Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh
Monday, July 19, 2010
Sometimes graphs can be encouraging!
Hard to remember that, in light of all the grim economic news lately, but there are things that appear to be trending in the right direction worldwide, even if the US isn't exactly leading the way...
(via rc3.org)
(via rc3.org)
Everybody needs friends (Monday baby-blogging)
Speck sleeps on top of a heap of stuffed animals, most of which she never plays with at any other time (although the oldest got some carry-around time in early days). Here she demonstrates her ability to hold them all in her arms at once, tucking the droopers back in like a mother hen...

Quick! take the picture while I have them! (27+ months)

A close-up of the pile. From top: Feel-Better Bear, Oscelot (just foot visible) Stubby Bear (originally intended as a back-up for primary bear), Tsah, two elephants on left, mouse nose barely visible in lower-right. (Red bird not visible here, but glimpsed at left above.)
Quick! take the picture while I have them! (27+ months)
A close-up of the pile. From top: Feel-Better Bear, Oscelot (just foot visible) Stubby Bear (originally intended as a back-up for primary bear), Tsah, two elephants on left, mouse nose barely visible in lower-right. (Red bird not visible here, but glimpsed at left above.)
Sunday, July 18, 2010
More on the personhood of children
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Wednesday tab dump
Really large number of interesting things in the hopper, but a week of solo parenting means I have neither time nor energy to do them justice. So here they come!
- A wolf in sheep's clothing: PayPal screws small event organizers in a nontrivial way. Why all the evil, PayPal??
- From the Department of Unexamined Privilege: Summer Opportunities for Indentured Servitude.
Unpaid internships may expedite the climb up the employment ladder for students from relatively wealthy, well-connected families, but for others it just knocks out the bottom rungs altogether.
(via Atrios) - Depressing: the military attempts to reframe internet crime into a terrorism issue so that it can expand its domains of power. The language debate may have already been lost. sigh.
(via Atrios) - Yay! some good news! Obama Administration to Cover PTSD for ALL Veterans (still, kind of tragic that it took this long...)
- From the Department of Counting Chickens (Schadenfreude office): The GOP's big November problem is that the public hates congressional Republicans! imagine!!
- Cool news of science: recent neuroscience findings indicate that we may affect the accuracy of our memories every time we recall them! Really neat for a neuro nerd like myself, as it turns some fundamental dogma on its head, but interesting for a general reader too, both conceptually and in how it might help with PTSD and other disorders.
(via rebecca's pocket) - From the Department of Comeuppance: Lady Business: Cleavage in the workplace. hilarious and on-target.
(via Medley) - Planning a vacation? The ways to make it a great one may not be what you think; science has some tips.
(via rc3.org) - And finally, from the Department of Great Metaphors: Pandas and Lobsters: Why Google Cannot Build Social Applications... -- fascinating for its insights into the Internet social space, whether or not you care about Google's business decisions.
(via Medley)
Some things will never change
Fat cats think they deserve all their breaks and that the poor and out of work must deserve their lot too. Maybe Republicans voting against extension of unemployment benefits need a little help in seeing the problem; for empathy they might read this guy's story, or for plain old facts, this graph makes the challenges pretty clear (to those who want to understand, anyway)...
Said hey old man how can you stand to think that way
Did you really think about it before you made the rules
He said, Son
That's just the way it is
Some things will never change
That's just the way it is
Ah, but don't you believe them . . .
- - Bruce Hornsby
Friday, July 09, 2010
Security theater
Man, I can't decide among these t-shirts. The whole ineffectual charade of airport security has succeeded in making me (a great lover of exploring the world!) dread travel, and all to accomplish virtually nothing. Does it really even make people feel better?
(via boing boing)
(via boing boing)
Thursday, July 08, 2010
Holy crap, it's Christmas in July!
Wednesday, July 07, 2010
Those crazy innovators
I want some of these: convertible suitcases that allow for use as baggage carts, scooters, and/or chairs, depending on your family conformation and style needs...
Tuesday, July 06, 2010
Rarely seen: Black-and-white shots of Speck
Ok, they were grayscaled from color via Photoshop, but I still like the effect, just for variety. Both come from our recent Poconos expedition, at just short of 28 months of age. Speck enjoyed the lake here, which had such a shallow wading area that she could walk out pretty far without getting too deep...

I like the rustic backdrop here.

Playing with a bucket and shovel...
(In case it's just too traumatic for you, color versions are here and here. Don't worry, color will be back soon!)
I like the rustic backdrop here.
Playing with a bucket and shovel...
(In case it's just too traumatic for you, color versions are here and here. Don't worry, color will be back soon!)
Quote of the day
Friday, July 02, 2010
Why are there people there?
This photo of the oil-filled waves off the Alabama coast is really striking -- it would be enough to make me feel fearful of nature if I lived there, I think. I understand that if you live or vacation in affected areas, you still want to get outside, but wouldn't you pick the pool over oil-lump-studded beach for your kids to swim in??? It boggles the mind.
(via BagNewsNotes and dooce, respectively)
(via BagNewsNotes and dooce, respectively)
Thursday, July 01, 2010
Hope on the horizon for the orally fearful
That is, if a trip to a dentist fills you with fear of drills and other painful intervention, you may thrill to the news that a new passive treatment induces tooth cells to regrow damaged tooth surface, so that neither drilling nor filling are required. Still a couple years of clinical testing to go, but could be pretty neat (and greatly lower the stress levels of jobs in dentistry as well)...
(via kottke)
(via kottke)
Wednesday, June 30, 2010
Poem of the day
(@ via negativa)
Weeding
After a rain,
the weeds yield
to the gentlest tug,
even the deep-rooted dock
& the brittle rhizomes
of brome grass:
they let go, they give up
their fistfuls of dirt after
a few hard shakes,
& for at least
one morning out of
all those that are left to me
it feels as if I am winning
this tug-of-war
with the earth.
- - Dave Bonta
Made me laugh, made me cry (and think)
For the laugh: this skewering of the Bride industry. Bring on the catty! And confusion of lackeys!
(via a guest blogger at dooce)
For the serious: Why I returned my iPad -- remembering the value of letting your mind wander...
(via rebecca's pocket)
(via a guest blogger at dooce)
For the serious: Why I returned my iPad -- remembering the value of letting your mind wander...
(via rebecca's pocket)
Tuesday, June 29, 2010
Frustrated and helpless
I used to find myself furious and worried about a lot of things under the Bush Administration, but now I find the areas of continuity with the Obama era even more worrisome, because they indicate institutionalization of a bunch of things that are terrible for our nation, economy, character. It's starting to get me down, and maybe unloading some tabs will help...
- La. Police Doing BP's Dirty Work -- hello? who's in charge here? does corporation trump Constitution??
- How many Americans are targeted for assassination? um, what? [head-desk]
- Endless war, a recipe for four-star arrogance -- chilling.
- Fixing The Ideology Problem in Our Political Press -- a great summary of the problem(s) and critical fixes.
- We need to restore economic growth -- a case study in how austerity during a recession is a terrible idea.
- When Greatness Slips Away -- a chipper, chipper summary of ways in which America is losing its way.
Monday, June 28, 2010
To Speck at 28 months
We've also reached some developmental milestones that sort of sneaked up on us. First, you are now potty-trained, after a 3-day marathon weekend with both parents at home, potties on every floor, and lots of celebratory dancing. Still a diaper for naps and overnight, but you're pretty reliable now in asking for the bathroom when you need it, whether we're at home or abroad, and we've even gotten over our own paranoia about leaving the house again. Less exciting, we've hit some major stretches of "terrible two" behavior, with your diet collapsing down
On the up side, this period has seen you even more affectionate, with lots of games acting as excuses to climb into our laps or snuggle, or running away so you can tell Mom to "try not to cry" and then console her, and with most departures requiring a "hug-n-kiss" from both parents. Plus, we now make a family sandwich before you head up to bed, and you like to point out that you are the peanut butter and jelly. Indeed, little Pookster, you are the PB&J that tasties up our bread -- thanks for sticking with us!
Sunday, June 27, 2010
Who to blame
Ampersand offers a nutshell take on recent financial indignities and the response of the American public to them. Sigh.
Thursday, June 24, 2010
Three bits on children/childhood
- A New York Times piece reports on the spreading school policy to discourage best friends at just about all ages. I understand teaching tolerance and coexistance in a variety of ways, but this seems like a really misguided effort that, at minimum, removes a bullwark against social insecurity and, at worst, deprives kids of the chance to learn the skills needed for relationship-building at any deeper level. As Medley says, another experiment with the re-engineering of childhood, effects unknown...
- A convincing argument against agressive tickling play. The points made here seem obvious in retrospect, but it's easy to get taken in by giggles and forget about personal boundaries and power differentials...
- A nice story: Dad lets 4-year-old play Grand Theft Auto, a game that encourages deranged violence, and the kid finds a way to be happy and helpful there instead. Yay!
Wednesday, June 23, 2010
Firing offenses
I'm with Digby on this one: McCrystal needs to go. Somebody who says that their biggest issue is with the "wimp in the Whitehouse" is somebody who can't be trusted to follow the chain of command.
(via a Medley tweet)
Update: Well, he did it! That's heartening, although I don't expect things to change much as a result...
I can't speak for anyone else, but my belief that he should fire McCrystal or at least accept his resignation (which is as far as he should go to appease the military) has nothing to do with any skepticism of the war. It has to do with respect for the constitutional requirement that the military be subordinate to the civilian executive. The military has been acting more and more as a rogue political faction with its own power base for quite some time. No president of either party should allow that (although it must be said that Bush's fetishizing of "the Generals on the ground" and The Man Called Petraeus has contributed greatly to this problem).The press will spin any decision as some kind of Democratic failing, so he might as well do the thing that is right on principle and shows some self-respect.
This isn't something to play with. Obama should accept his resignation.
(via a Medley tweet)
Update: Well, he did it! That's heartening, although I don't expect things to change much as a result...
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
Quote of the day
(via whiskey river)
But the mind always
wants more than it has -
one more bright day of sun,
one more clear night in bed
with the moon; one more hour
to get the words right; one
more chance for the heart in hiding
to emerge from its thicket
in dried grasses - as if this quiet day
with its tentative light weren't enough,
as if joy weren't strewn all around.
- - Holly Hughes
from Mind Wanting More
Monday, June 21, 2010
...but they're *our* crooks!
No amount of violence, irresponsibility, and coverup can keep us from using Blackwater for military security. Of course, when there's another international incident, it will be all Who Could Have Foreseen?!? grrrr....
Father's Day tribute
A few shots of Speck having fun with Daddy in Philadelphia's Rittenhouse Square. She got some spinning and other giggle-creation, in between bouts of hopping and bouncing around the stones... (photos actually from a warm spell in early May, so 26+ months)



And this last one is a tribute to Dad's patience and creativity in making ever-new worlds for Speck's frogs (previously turtles or monkeys) to explore! More, more!

And this last one is a tribute to Dad's patience and creativity in making ever-new worlds for Speck's frogs (previously turtles or monkeys) to explore! More, more!
Friday, June 18, 2010
Spiffy bits
A bunch of things that have tickled or intrigued me over the last few days...
- A neat historical fact: Martha's Vineyard was once home to an original deaf culture that was fully integrated into everyday life (and later contributed to the development of ASL). Amazing!
- Roger Ebert gives a lyrical description of Twitter, the art being done there, the connections it forms around the world, how it won him over from critic to addict.
- Rachel Maddow gives the alternative oil-disaster speech we all wish that Obama had given, including actual policy changes! Amen.
- How could one ever explain the ending of DADT policy? Really, it's really not that hard, at least if you're in the habit of talking about differences among people as part of the spectrum of natural and behavioral variation among folks...
- An entertaining art series from the New Yorker, in which the US map is scrambled to various effects.
(via kottke) - Finally, I'm inspired by this piece of self-boosterism, but I also seem unlikely to actually compose my own equivalent. So I'll let her @$#! amazingness speak for me.
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Thursday, June 17, 2010
Health tip of the day: automobile care!
(via Follow Me Here)
Wednesday, June 16, 2010
More crappy news, various kinds
Oil gushing into the Gulf...
- Obama's Oil Spill Speech: What Was The Point? Would sure be nice to see some concrete leadership rather than sentimental reassurances coming out of the White House.
(via a Medley tweet) - And the ever-apt Onion offers Massive Flow Of Bullshit Continues To Gush From BP Headquarters
- Sunday shows offer excuses, not reasons, for male-dominated guest lists. Because they like talking to the folks they already know.
- More and less humorously, What Disney Princesses teach girls -- they are just props in their own life stories!
- Imagine! Encouraging/expecting men to take parental leave changes both its acceptance and how masculinity itself is viewed. Gives one hope (although we hate to learn anything from Sweden!)...
- Paul Krugman appears to be a lone voice in the wilderness these days, pointing out that faux fears about inflation are leading to foolhardy recommendations to trim stimulus spending and other measures that are needed to get us out of this economic mess. The illogic is truly befuddling -- more on the austerity craziness here.
- Also in the crazy arithmetic department, the Conventional Wisdom that there won't be enough workers to support the elderly in a few years, whether via Social Security or whatever other tax-derived programs, can be shown to be baseless. Not that such frames are amenable to evidence...
- Policy versus no policy as roulette wheels -- an inspired way to look at long-term risks that can't be exactly calculated. Ok, we don't know *precisely* how much the Earth will warm if we don't do anything about greenhouse gasses, but we know that the likely range is much higher than the likely range if we intervene. A graphic that conveys a lot.
- Terrorists figure out how to get America to attack itself: leave harmless, "suspicious" bags around. I only wish it were the Onion, but it's clearly the sad fact. Every time I travel, I see how thoroughly the terrorists have "won"...
- Bottled and Sold, a book about the bottled water industry, reveals yet again the stupidity that is our choosing (unregulated, often filthy) bottled water over (closely regulated, generally good) tap water, just because we're so susceptible to marketing/fads. Grrrrr!
- We now schedule so many CT scans that they've become our major radiation exposure source, and may be adding up to a significant cancer risk for a portion of the US population. Apparently doctors never think to see how many of these things you've had -- keep track for yourself!!
(via a Medley tweet)
Tuesday, June 15, 2010
Yeah, what *he* said...
I know I've been a bit cranky lately, but it's just rather distressing to see that even with Democratic control elites just aren't up to the task of governing this county in an adequate fashion. I didn't have high hopes for a great liberal revolution, but I did expect, well, better.
- - Atrios
Groggy "Monday"
Quote of the day
(via the CSLewisDaily Twitter feed)
To act on the light one has is almost the only way to more light.
- - C.S.Lewis
Thursday, June 10, 2010
Wait, Democrats can play offense?
Instead of waiting for the GOP to find a way to spin repeal of healthcare reform as a positive idea (and define the fall media narrative), Democrats are actually getting out ahead on the issue, starting a nationwide advertising and event campaign to highlight benefits of the reform bill and challenge Republicans to defend their plan to take that all away. "A plan only insurance companies would love!" Go, DNC!
Wednesday, June 09, 2010
High and low art
My day was just made by this architectural analysis of couch-cushion forts (a second page of critiques is also available).
(via boing boing)
No really, worth reading all of them. Quite good fun.Drawing from the saw-tooth roof structures of industrial Europe, the orthogonal volume cleverly employs a swing hinge access door, popularized by the mid-century modern masters
(via boing boing)
Tuesday, June 08, 2010
Our brains as collaborators in care
Doctors are trying to figure out how to use the placebo effect to make medicine less costly and less dangerous, while potentially just as effective.
(via Follow Me Here)
But according to advocates, there’s enough data for doctors to start thinking of the placebo effect not as the opposite of medicine, but as a tool they can use in an evidence-based, conscientious manner. Broadly speaking, it seems sensible to make every effort to enlist the body’s own ability to heal itself--which is what, at bottom, placebos seem to do. And as researchers examine it more closely, the placebo is having another effect as well: it is revealing a great deal about the subtle and unexpected influences that medical care, as opposed to the medicine itself, has on patients.How to dispense "sugar pills" while continuing to uphold ethical guidelines and treating patients as collaborators is the question that still needs addressing. Will be interesting to see the (essentially sociology) experiments that are designed to address how to make this possible! Already, the insights into the substantial effects of good doctoring are powerful...
(via Follow Me Here)
Saturday, June 05, 2010
Agog
This story just blows my mind. So many ways it is wrong.
Still think that all your racist legislation isn't having any local effects, AZ?
(via a Medley tweet)
Update: a nice response from Roger Ebert to this same craziness.
(via rc3.org)
Still think that all your racist legislation isn't having any local effects, AZ?
(via a Medley tweet)
Update: a nice response from Roger Ebert to this same craziness.
(via rc3.org)
Thursday, June 03, 2010
Creeping crud
(first link via Medley tweet, last via Atrios)
Wednesday, June 02, 2010
Quote of the day
(via A Mindful Life)
A child kicks its legs rhythmically through excess, not absence, of life. Because children have abounding vitality, because they are in spirit fierce and free, therefore they want things repeated and unchanged. They always say, Do it again; and the grown-up person does it again until he is nearly dead. For grown-up people are not strong enough to exult in monotony. But perhaps God is strong enough… It is possible that God says every morning, Do it again, to the sun; and every evening, Do it again, to the moon. It may not be automatic necessity that makes all daisies alike: it may be that God makes every daisy separately, but has never got tired of making them. It may be that He has the eternal appetite of infancy; for we have sinned and grown old, and our Father is younger than we.
- – G. K. Chesterton
Tuesday, June 01, 2010
Blatant baby-blogging
Tuesday of Too Many Tabs
Here's some neat stuff I've bumped into lately. Apologies where the referer has been lost...
- A flight attendant and travel magician shows how to pack for a ten-day trip in a carry-on bag. Rolling your clothes achieves much more compaction than I would have thought possible.
- InfoLadies of Bangladesh bring a host of instruction to rural villages, using Web-derived information to improve people's every day lives. Fantastic.
- Hate being put on hold at customer service? A new company makes the call for you, and rings your phone when a live representative finally picks up.
- Piling up physical clutter "for the kids"? Here's some advice to give up that collection in favor of real memories and a few choice items.
(via a Medley tweet) - Finding your life mentally cluttered? Maybe you need to add in some uni-tasking practice to get an upper hand on your mental space at work and at home. We certainly seem to prefer busy-ness to mindfulness, and I think we might be surprised how satisfying the reverse can be...
(via kottke)
Friday, May 28, 2010
A small blow for sanity
Well, imagine that. Ok, the whole defense bill still has to come up for a vote, but come on, are the Republicans really going to vote against that?? I guess that somebody finally heard that the American people just aren't worked up about this issue anymore...
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Clean geeky fun
(via boing boing)
Kids and restaurants -- avoid the children's menu?
That's what this article advises.
Children’s menus aim too low, he argues — they’re a parenting crutch.Of course, what they're really talking about here is the Family Meal, an ideal to which I definitely aspire, but which is currently hampered by the fact that Speck heads up for her pre-bed routine around 6pm. Still, we generally try to get her to try whatever we're eating, but with some peanut butter and crackers at the bottom of the bag just in case. I'd been looking forward to an era when she would eat some of these common Kid Foods -- maybe I will up my aspirations about getting her to Try New Things instead.
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
It's time for another istallment of Good News, Bad News!
Because there's just too much of the latter and desperately little of the former...
Good News:
BP might actually get some comeuppance for its negligent drilling practices in the Gulf and many other places. Is it too much to hope?
Bad News:
Dispersants being used to control the spilled oil may be poisoning people who are helping with the clean-up. And presumably the rest of the ecosystem too...
(via Atrios)
Good News:
Legislation repealing the stupid Don't Ask, Don't Tell policy is about to be introduced, with support from both White House and House Democrats. No idea what it's fate might be, especially if it's framed as an amendment to something else, but it's a start!
Bad News:
The war is making you poor -- and that's before we look at what we've already spent. Does anybody even think about plans for withdrawel anymore? Are we really learning to live in a perpetual state of conflict, heedless of the price?
Good News:
Mark Twain's autobiography is about to be released this fall, after being held 100 years from his death, as he requested. There's bound to be some fun in there!
(via boing boing)
Pure Silliness:
A recent book ponders some cultural differences between conservative and liberal regions of the country, and notes some striking assumptions that often cause us to talk past each other. They write: In red America, families form adults [early pregnancy and marriage, and teens grow up because of adult demands]; in blue America, adults form families [teens are encouraged to be "smart" about sex and to wait to start families after they finish their educations]. Interesting lens for other conflicts, and the reviewer notes some other implications about our evolving society and how it treats these two paths.
Good News:
BP might actually get some comeuppance for its negligent drilling practices in the Gulf and many other places. Is it too much to hope?
Bad News:
Dispersants being used to control the spilled oil may be poisoning people who are helping with the clean-up. And presumably the rest of the ecosystem too...
(via Atrios)
Good News:
Legislation repealing the stupid Don't Ask, Don't Tell policy is about to be introduced, with support from both White House and House Democrats. No idea what it's fate might be, especially if it's framed as an amendment to something else, but it's a start!
Bad News:
The war is making you poor -- and that's before we look at what we've already spent. Does anybody even think about plans for withdrawel anymore? Are we really learning to live in a perpetual state of conflict, heedless of the price?
Good News:
Mark Twain's autobiography is about to be released this fall, after being held 100 years from his death, as he requested. There's bound to be some fun in there!
(via boing boing)
Pure Silliness:
- Tragically familiar: the sneaky hate spiral
Eventually, the sum of the small annoyances begins to exceed your capacity for patience and rational thought. All it would take to send you over the edge into a bottomless pit of angry hysteria is just one more tiny, little thing...
I like to take my misanthropy into solitude, preferably with trees. This is tragically incompatible with my current Life With Toddler... - A map of Europe redrawn to reflect the lessons and injustices of history.
In Britain's place should come Poland, which has suffered quite enough in its location between Russia and Germany and deserves a chance to enjoy the bracing winds of the North Atlantic and the security of sea water between it and any potential invaders.
(via kottke)
A recent book ponders some cultural differences between conservative and liberal regions of the country, and notes some striking assumptions that often cause us to talk past each other. They write: In red America, families form adults [early pregnancy and marriage, and teens grow up because of adult demands]; in blue America, adults form families [teens are encouraged to be "smart" about sex and to wait to start families after they finish their educations]. Interesting lens for other conflicts, and the reviewer notes some other implications about our evolving society and how it treats these two paths.
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Friday, May 21, 2010
Friday film fun
Baby fun, that is -- cute babbling kid singing little kid songs... Have a good weekend, all!
This one is comprehensible (ABCs) but rather subdued in affect.
This one (Old MacDonald) is brief but full of Speck personality
(and eagerness to get behind the camera to view the result).
This one is comprehensible (ABCs) but rather subdued in affect.
This one (Old MacDonald) is brief but full of Speck personality
(and eagerness to get behind the camera to view the result).
In every white cloud, a darker lining
Financial reform passes the Senate! and it's more progressive than anybody had imagined possible. And yet...
Historians will probably conclude that the package of reforms was surprisingly modest given the depth and severity of the 2008-09 financial crisis. A harsher historical judgment might find that the political and economic power wielded by the financial industry in the late 20th and early 21st centuries was so extensive that it could weather a near total collapse of the system without having to yield its power or privilege.Looks that way from my seats too...
- -- David Kurtz (at Talking Points Memo)
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
Quote of the day
Childhood is not a bad smell you get to hold your nose around until it passes. It is an iteration of humanity.
- - Sybil Vane
(as part of this post at Bitch, Ph.D.)
Economy -- still sick, not recovering fast
One out of seven U.S. households with a mortgage ended the first quarter late on mortgage payments or in the foreclosure process, although the pace has ebbed now that unemployment appears to have peaked, the Mortgage Bankers Association said on Wednesday.One in seven! whew. It's gonna be a while before new buyers appear for all those houses...
Monday, May 17, 2010
Crappy health, crappy news, crap crap crap
Man, what *really* chews holes in your day/week is combinatorial childcare illness/breakdown. Sigh. Anyway, here are some things I feel compelled to blog, while simultaneously not wanting to blog any of them...
- The Obama Administration is working to undermine Miranda protections, even for U.S. citizens. All of these guys seem to think that nobody scarier than themselves will ever be in charge, and thus they are cavallier with the things that protect average folks who might find themselves in the wrong place at the wrong time. For my part, this makes me wonder who the Good Guys are anymore.
- More and more folks want me to join Facebook, even as it's getting less and less private as time passes. The difference between the first and last images there seems to me to represent the difference between what people *think* they're getting from social networks (the ability to socialize only with the people they want to) and what they're *actually* getting (more and more of their information made available to every search engine and third-party business interest). Appalling.
- Pediatricians come out in favor of a minimalist female genital mutilation procedure. Ok, better than a radical clitorectomy and the like, but it's hard for me to be excited by any casual endorsement of "nicking"...
- The media keeps talking about the recovery underway, but it's striking how little impact it has had on unemployment, which is not only at high rates but also for shocking durations. Eventually the carnage on Main Street is going to trickle up to Wall Street, however well insulated...
- Just to top off all the chipperness here, a little cartoon that captures the way that I take Arizona's immigration craziness personally -- not because it affects *me* right now, but because it reflects badly on what we think our nation is about. Not pretty times.
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
How to chew holes in your day
I'm not generally too consumed by tower defense-type games, but this one has pushed my obsessive button to the extreme, maybe because of the additional elements (some magic, some multiround investment, etc.). Almost forgot about the 5 zillion other things I should be doing with my time. Expect it will happen again...
(via that pesky kottke)
(via that pesky kottke)
Thursday, May 06, 2010
Quote of the day
I googled "woman cave" and got this message: "Did you mean: man caves?" At least it didn’t say, "Make me a sandwich."
- - Amanda Marcotte
(here)
Wednesday, May 05, 2010
Happy thoughts!
Here is some general cuteness and signs of spring (all from around 26 months of Speckage). If you can't get outside today, at least you can enjoy a little vicarious seasonality...

Here's some cute kid all decked out for some serious Easter egg hunting.

And here's that same kid looking alarmingly sophisticated!

And here's my favorite of the recent spate of crafts made around our house.
Here's some cute kid all decked out for some serious Easter egg hunting.
And here's that same kid looking alarmingly sophisticated!
And here's my favorite of the recent spate of crafts made around our house.
Well, thanks for *that*!
As if your worries about the oil spill (and/or the state of the nation/world) weren't already bad enough...
Ahem.
(via a Medley tweet)
Ahem.
(via a Medley tweet)
Tuesday, May 04, 2010
Bits about that oil that's gushing all over the place
- This cartoon strikes me as capturing the visceral feelings that I have in watching the oil slick widen, the coast get engulfed, and the cleaner-uppers wave their hands.
(via a dailyKos diary) - But this cartoon maybe gets at the deeper scariness, which involves all those reassurances that Nothing Will Ever Go Wrong (and that we can keep on Not Thinking About where our energy comes from).
(via a dailyKos diary) - Even scarier, and something I hadn't thought to ask, or seen anybody else discuss, is what exactly BP is pumping into the water to contain the oil -- should we really take for granted that those chemicals are less dangerous than what they're mopping up?
(via Atrios) - On the more thought-provoking front is this question about whether we (the larger human species, and maybe the earth too) really win if the current spill quenches interest in futher drilling off the US coast, since drilling elsewhere is so much more ecologically damaging. (Though, of course, There not Here...)
- Meantime, Rush Limbaugh takes the occasion to clarify that he's a putz by assuming that drilling miles into the ocean floor is a natural-type phenomenon. Can we take away that guy's mic already??
Monday, May 03, 2010
Quote of the day
Facebook is a conditioning system... that provides intermittant social reward for foolish disclosure.
- - from this video about privacy
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