Saturday, October 09, 2010

Mother Nature knows her stuff

a wolf tearing at an elk carcass in the snowWhen conservationists argued for the reintroduction of wolves to Yellowstone Park, I think they were concerned mostly with the fate of the wolves themselves, but they surely thought also of the burgeoning elk population in the park and the diseases to which it had become susceptible. Still, they must have been pleasantly surprised when the benefits trickled down to songbirds and the formation of ponds and rivers in the park. A reminder that ecosystems are closely interconnected, and, as the writer notes toward the end of the piece, a prod to further thought about how we might best deal with coming climate change.

(via Follow Me Here)

Friday, October 08, 2010

Oh, the cuteness!

Tiny bunnies move only their noses! tiny sniff... tiny sniff...
Le faint!

Two bits on Getting Things Done

Two interesting things have come across my desk this week in the realm of Finishing Things, both of which offer great tips for thinking about your goals and managing the tasks along the way.
  • Bre Pettis offers a manifesto from the Cult of Done, whose 13 pointed tenets include these winners:
    2. Accept that everything is a draft. It helps to get it done.

    4. Pretending you know what you're doing is almost the same as knowing what you are doing, so just accept that you know what you're doing even if you don't and do it.

    10. Failure counts as done. So do mistakes.
  • Finishing a Game, another post with lots of tips for thinking about projects, setting up collaborations, and actually bringing it all together.
    If you treat finishing like a skill, rather than simply a step in the process, you can acknowledge not only that it’s something you can get better at, but also what habits and thought processes get in your way.
Great stuff. Of course, I intended to post this yesterday, which just goes to show that I still have some work to do on my own skill at Finishing (or maybe that I prioritized work completion for a change)...

(first via Medley, 2nd via Rebecca's Pocket)

Wednesday, October 06, 2010

Grading on a curve

stylized elephant and donkey, head to headI'm afraid that Josh has a point here. Getting rid of Santorum really mobilized PA voters, but now an even scarier guy, Toomey, is in the race and barely making waves in either the media coverage or the sense of widespread Democratic ennui. I know the Tea Partiers have been claiming the Crazy Right mantel, but that doesn't mean that these Club for Growth creeps should start being viewed as moderate!

Tuesday, October 05, 2010

Dynamics of group problem-solving

Couple of interesting things about this study of group intelligence:
  1. it is something other than a sum of the individuals that make up the group (seemingly having more to do with how well those people work together),
  2. the number of women in the group was linked to its problem-solving ability.
Another plug for the values of diversity, as well as the specific skills (whether inherent or socialized) of women in particular.

(via Medley)

Monday, October 04, 2010

The stuff of nightmares

A view of mechanically separated chicken, the predecessor of MacNuggets and their kin. Scary what has to be done to it to make it seem like food . . .
(via Medley)

Update: the original post is riddled with errors. The truth is probably disturbing enough.

Long overdue baby-blogging!

Has taken a couple of days' free time to process my backlog of photos (with videos still to come), but finally have uploaded some Speck cutenss from June through September, including her first County Fair, some travels domestic and foreign, and other general chaos. Anyway, will dole them out here over the next couple of weeks. First installment, Around-the-House Summer Silliness! (all from around 29 months)

Speck standing in a bucket full of bristle blocks
Buried in a bucket of bristle blocks!

Speck in a colorful shirt pushing her popper down the sidewalk
Taking Mr. Pop-pop for a walk

Speck pretending to nap with some stuffed animals under a quilt
Pretending to nap, all tucked in with fuzzy friends

Tune in next week for highlights from the Reading County fair!

Friday, October 01, 2010

Lemonade

Man, this story was a bummer, but how absolutely fantastic, heartwarming, tear-inducing to see this great response: It Gets Better. If only that kid could have heard them in time. Heck, the same is true for any kid who feels like the "only one" -- you probably aren't, and you'll find the others if you just give yourself time. There's a niche out there for you, and it just gets better.

Thursday, September 30, 2010

Other people's business

photo of RahmI know that Chicago has had a Daley as mayor for 50 out of the last 60 years, so they're used to having autocrats in power. But still, would they be excited for Rahm Emanuel? Perhaps Chicago is more forgiving of personality (relative to prowess and policy) than some places...

Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Quote of the day


If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality.
- Desmond Tutu,
clergyman (b. 1931)
(via A.W.A.D.)

With friends like these...

I know it must be hard to be a Democrat from some of the crazy more conservative states, but still, moves like this Landrieu hold make me grit my teeth . . .

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Tenacious disaffection

I agree with Obama's call to stand up, and I want to encourage my local voters to turn out in November (especially to prevent a crazy man to the right of Santorum from becoming my state's US Senator!), but I also have sympathy for these views. I would never think of staying home on Election Day, because the differences do matter, but the amount of my personal funds and energy that are going into the political realm is decreasing. Other parts of my life have been neglected to some degree, and many of those offer much more reward for investment.

dragging donkey

It worries me that I feel this way. How much more so those who don't really see the differences?

Update: more useful pushback here, including this:
I think progressives in general have to decide whether to work when the work is easy, or work when the work is hard. It was definitely comparatively easy to work for Obama two years ago, because there was idealism, hope, and a kind of certainty that if only we could elect him, then everything would change and it would somehow be easy, despite the campaign's best efforts to tell us that change is hard. It hasn't been easy, and now we're witnessing a population make the choice on whether to roll up their sleeves or sit on their hands.
I also think there was such relief to be rid of Bush (and to have avoided the bullet of McCain) that we wanted to bask for a while. But the opposition made sure we didn't get much to wallow in, and we can't let their obstructionism get the upper hand. Tally ho!

Monday, September 27, 2010

Link dump, several themes

I know that this stuff would be better in smaller installments, but the combination of general time-crunch with lingering jet-lag is totally killing my blogging time. Better a heap than never.

Grumpy news
  • U.S. Is Bankrupt and We Don't Even Know It whee

  • FBI probes were improper, Justice says -- surprise! the FBI used 9/11 as an excuse to add liberal activists to terrorist watch lists. How long ago do the 1960s feel now?? Civil disobediance still scares The Man inordinately...

  • Obama can learn from 'Godfather' -- being President should mean powers you can use. Of course, the author presumes that this oversight is accidental, rather than a fundamental feature of Obama's character; I think he likes to be a facilitator, not directly leverage action. Frustrating to watch!

  • The wrong way to answer Ms. Velma Hart -- more on the President's falling short

  • Do Not Pity the Democrats -- this takes the grim up a notch, pointing out that partisan politics are rather dwarfed by the growing and inappropriate power of corporations in modern America. A call to local organizing, whether for financial control, political reform, or just to put some counterweights out there against the monolithic oligarchy that is increasingly blind to the public at large.

  • In the nonpolitical realm, 'Halfalogue': Overheard cell-phone conversations are not only annoying but reduce our attention -- our ability to think and reason are actually more disrupted by half a conversation than by having both halves in our auditory space. Interesting.

  • Which is the gay one? My feeling about Don't Ask, Don't Tell in a nutshell!

Parenting bits
Silliness and thoughtfulness

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

Two amusing iPad bits

Two things that amused me today:
  1. An Etch-a-sketch case -- if only it interfaced with software! heh.

  2. We can benefit from these gizmos without even owning them: some restaurants are offering iPad wine menus to allow customers to research their offerings and make more informed choices.

Monday, September 20, 2010

Quote of the day


It's hard to remember that this day will never come again. That the time is now and the place is here and that there are no second chances at a single moment.
- Jeanette Winterson
(via whiskey river)

Thursday, September 02, 2010

Vive la difference!

I sure wish more folks would think this way, that making up narratives about the Right Way to live, worship, parent, vote, etc., and then getting angry about people with Other Approaches is just a waste of energy, and we could all use a little more space to breathe. 'Cause we surely all could. And nobody lives their life just to spite somebody else.

(via Medley)

Tuesday, August 31, 2010

[tap, tap] Is this thing on?


erasers arranged into neat rows and columns, for a colorful quilt effect

Caught in a whirlwind between two trips, a change of planned fall nursery schools, and replacement of family room floor and couches. All a bit much for my head, and hence for my blogging rate. Anyway, wanted to showcase these images that I loved from the aptly named and strangely addictive blog Things Organized Neatly. Good to exercise those visual muscles once in a while...

a neat abstract pattern of hinged wooden clothespins against a black background

(via kottke)

Friday, August 20, 2010

Can't leave you hangin'!

Headed off to let Speck meet her cousin for the first (real) time while galavanting at the grandparents' house. Here's a little video that captures her current level of enthusiasm and skill in climbing and sliding at the local playground...




Thursday, August 19, 2010

My barbaric yawp

man asleep on arms at deskI appear to have fallen into a blogging hole. Rather, the last week sort of wrung me out, physically and mentally, in a variety of ways too pedestrian to be worth enumerating, and suddenly I have a lot of tabs and no sign of blogular life. (And might I just say that this gizmo is my new favorite thing, simultaneously inflicting order and enabling procrastination to heady degrees.) Anyway, here are some things of note...
  • Atrios notes a sensible policy that would help us through these challenging economic times, but probably won't even get discussed.

  • It's certainly not a good sign for the recovery when people cause riots just lining up for Secion 8 housing!

  • Here's a good point, about both current (infuriating) affairs and the weaknesses of the Democratic party.

  • Speaking of good points, pithily put, here's one about language and Othering (or the definition of normal).
    (via NowThis)

  • Here's a good essay: The Real Struggle Behind Climate Change: A War on Expertise
    As part of a more general assault on the very notion of expertise, the narrative starts with a truism that is actually true:

    "Not every smart person is wise..."

    only then extrapolates it, implicitly, to a blatant falsehood

    "all smartypants are unwise, all the time; and my uninformed opinion is equal to any expert testimony."
    Interesting points here about the culture of science that gets overlooked (e.g., ambitious post docs are always looking for holes in their elders' theories, in order to make names for themselves, yet the "critics" assume that everyone involved is a "sell-out" marching in lock-step)...

  • Related (but funnier): If sports got reported like science... -- why do we presume it reasonable to require all sorts of esoteric knowledge in our recreation that we find unbearable in more serious matters?
Well, that clears things up a bit, and should be enough for everybody to chew on until I can get my act together a bit. Enjoy!

Thursday, August 12, 2010

Counterintuitive

The idea that going without traffic signals (or designing around them) actually makes intersections more efficient and less dangerous just blows my mind. Taking advantage of the power of human ability to negotiate such meetings with minimal signals and communications. Pretty neat.

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Not what his family has planned

...but this seems the appropriate blogger memorial for Ted Stevens. After all, I heard about the plane crash via the Internet pipes...

Getting better all the time

When you hear somebody say that the recession is over, don't you believe it. More and more people are tightening their belts, and that's not good for our long-term prospects...

A willful return to the dark ages?

slice of chalkboard with mathematical equations written on itReally, I can't find anything funny about this level of misunderstanding, let alone the promulgation of ignorance as a way of life. We are fortunate to live in a time of remarkable scientific discovery, but we seem consitutionally incapable of allowing it to guide us toward a better life, whether it's effective public health interventions, acceptance of homosexual parents, or avoidance of climate disaster. Being unwilling to accept fundamental concepts of reality -- because you don't understand the difference between "relativity" and "relativism" or because gravity seems nonintuitive -- is a recipe for disaster for an individual, let alone a nation.

Monday, August 09, 2010

Terrible things, wonderful things

Terrible things
  • Handy tools for keeping track of your kids become deadly in the hands of abusive stalkers and spouses. A word to the wise.
    (via FreeRangeKids tweets)

  • I had this same response to the Michele Obama anti-obesity campaign -- can't you focus on fitness rather than further stigmatizing fat kids? jeez.
    (via Alas a Blog)

  • America would rather unravel its civilization than take a few extra tax %'s from those who are doing ok or spend money to perk the economy back up. What on earth?!
    (via Atrios)
Wonderful things
  • There's new evidence that there may have been no Big Bang, but rather that the universe has no beginning or end. Should be interesting to see how this is received both in the scientific community and as it impacts widespread humanistic philosophy.
    (via Follow Me Here)

  • Some scientists have managed to harness the powerful pattern-recognition abilities of the human brain to improve the performance of a protein-folding algorithm. Neat as a concept -- gaming as cloud computing -- and as an application where non-experts can contribute in a meaningful way.

Sunday, August 08, 2010

Live and let live

Fareed Zakaria has this exactly right. And I think he was both brave and honorable in returning his award from the ADL, whose involvement in this entire issue is downright shameful.

Friday, August 06, 2010

A few cheerful bits for Friday

Just a few, to leaven the usual doom and gloom...
  • Billionaires Pledge To Spread the Wealth -- Warren Buffet induces a landslide of largesse among his peers.

  • National Night Out -- one kid recreates an environment for unstructured neighborhood play, reminding a lot of parents that the end of their yards isn't the end of the world (and making a couple of new friends along the way)!

  • It Made My Day -- folks sharing the little episodes along the way that brightened their day or gave them a laugh.
And, of course, nothing improves your day like a bear on your head!

Speck in stroller, grinning, with teddy bear lying on her head

Thursday, August 05, 2010

Another chink in the wall

wedding ringsIt seemed obvious to me that CA Prop. 8 was unconstitutional, but I wasn't sure that a court would be ready to spell that out. Let's hope this doesn't rush ahead to the Supreme Court, given its current creepy level of right-wing agenda. Still, hooray!!

Edit: seems right to add this bit of snark... Yep.

Wednesday, August 04, 2010

Exactly right

One of the most on-point things I've seen this year: Sexual Assault Prevention Tips Guaranteed to Work!
7. USE THE BUDDY SYSTEM! If you are not able to stop yourself from assaulting people, ask a friend to stay with you while you are in public.
Imagine!

(via a Medley tweet)

Tuesday, August 03, 2010

Digital divide

a computer screen, blue with the word 'you' written on itI think that there's a new digital divide opening up, and it's not as simple as whether you know how to work your desktop computer -- it's about whether or not you realize that there's an immense and important social space out there. We often laugh about elderly Senators who don't know what email is (or who think of the Internet as a series of tubes), but really there's a mental shift that occurs between just shifting your phone calls into email and developing unique relationships entirely derived from online contact (or almost entirely conducted there).

This is different from the ubiquity of connection provided by constant messanging and the like, but related, in that it represents a change in our definition of friends and in our ways of building meaning, and also a shift from viewing a computer as a tool to seeing it as a transparent access to a separate set of spaces out there in the cloud. You either have a visceral understanding of this or you are missing a mode of awareness of the world.

(link via rc3.org)

Really, this quote applies to so many parts of government these days

...that I sort of hate to narrow it down:
'While we appreciate your desire to revise the statute to reflect your expansive vision of it, the fact is that we must work with the actual language of the statute, not the aspirational version' that [Agency] had provided."
heheh...

Monday, August 02, 2010

Quote of the day


How strange it is. We have these deep terrible lingering fears about ourselves and the people we love. Yet we walk around, talk to people, eat and drink. We manage to function. The feelings are deep and real. Shouldn't they paralyze us? How is it we can survive them, at least for a little while? We drive a car, we teach a class. How is it no one sees how deeply afraid we were, last night, this morning? Is it something we all hide from each other, by mutual consent? Or do we share the same secret without knowing it? Wear the same disguise?
stone carved with a spiral
- Don DeLillo
sam & sara motel
(via whiskey river)

Friday, July 30, 2010

Mr. Smith is a little pissed off

That is, Sen. Weiner takes his GOP colleagues to task for filibustering health aid to 9/11 responders.
Weiner attacked those who "stand up and say, 'Oh, if only we had a different process we'd vote yes.' You vote yes if you believe yes! You vote in favor of something if you believe it's the right thing! If you believe it's the wrong thing, you vote no!"

"It is a shame! A shame," he exclaimed.
Really worth watching the video -- genuine righteous anger seems in short supply in these crazy times of kibuki partisan bickering, and it does the heart good.

Friday baby-blogging: boot camp for toddlers

"Hit that playground, yes we can! Take the kids on, man-on-man. Climb the slide and push the swing; we can do most anything! Sound off.... get wet.... 1-2-3-4: play now, some more!!"

Speck climbs a playground ladder up to the top of a favorite slide
Up that ladder, up, up!

Speck stretches to step onto a stump in our neighborhood
Across the moat, stretch, jump!

Speck performs the obligatory bar-hang before going down a slide; Tsah lies waiting her turn
Hang from that bar! now give me pull-ups!
(what, no? ok then, down you go!)


Thursday, July 29, 2010

A small blow for sanity

Well! unexpected good thing of the week: disparity in drug sentencing reduced. Not sure what the rationale is for keeping the remining differential, but every little bit helps...

(via a tweet from FreeRangeKids)

It's hard to sustain activism

I agree with Matthew Yglesias that progressive activists are depressed -- not so much in terms of literal mood, but in terms of the sense of hope that anything can be accomplished. The Obama record has been mixed and on many fronts disappointing, and onetime (or potential) activists are simply redirecting their energies into parts of their lives more likely to reward the investment. Perhaps large-scale movements inevitably run out of steam after a few years, and perhaps the absence of Bush-fueled rage has speeded that deflation, but I think that there are still a lot of folks who would get back in the trenches if something made them think it would make a difference. There's just not a lot of tangible evidence out there to encourage them...

sad donkey

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Wednesday link roundup: Bits related to kids and parenting

  • This is a sad tribute to the state of modern America: Why I Didn't Help a Lost Girl. I suspect that fear of being branded a pervert probably keeps all sorts of men, parents or otherwise, from having meaningful interactions with the kids in their communities.

  • The same sentiment is captured by this comic routine.

  • Also bucking the received wisdom, 'Don't Talk to Strangers' is Dangerous Advice. It's more important to learn whom to avoid and whom to run toward in an emergency!

  • From the Department of Snark comes this advice column exchange in which a single friend suspects that her stay-at-home-mom friend is just lounging around all day doing nothing. I have to say that I thought that the columnist's tone was not entirely out of line, although I will also admit that no amount of warning could have prepared me for how entirely a baby or small child can absorb all available time and energy from its caretakers.

  • On the sublime parental artistry front, I offer this blog of baby daydreams as imagined (and made real) by the mother of a newborn; it's the cutest! But man! in those early days, nobody in my household was functional enough to even consider such an enterprise!

  • And finally, from the Department of Entertaining Toddlers and Their Parents Too: Sesame Street makes a segment based on Mad Men. So right and so wrong...


Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Taking charge of your response

I think this talk is one of the most inspiring things I've seen lately. One woman's ability to make overcoming her injury into a role-playing game, involving her friends and relatives, is a testament to mind over matter (or, you know, mind over brainmatter), and to old-fashioned community-supported cures over modern medicine. And, you know, just a brilliant way to make lemonade.

Friday, July 23, 2010

Secret language

I love this article about the private language developed by couples over time. My spouse and I already have a wealth of inside jokes and references and figure that by the time we've been married 25 years, we'll be completely incomprehensible to others. Of course, with kids around, it only gets worse, as all their favorite books, zany mishaps, and malaprops become incorporated into family lore. Hopefully detangling the content from the insider hugging will become part of a future lesson in Knowing Your Audience, but it's possible we'll just become more and more eccentric . . .

Thursday, July 22, 2010

Economic policies that might surprise you

money growing on a tree
  • Raising the retirement age gets a lot of discussion right now, and Ezra Klein notes that life expectancy has been going up for high wage earners but not so much for those at the bottom of the spectrum. Another policy that bludgeons the already overworked and underpaid.
    (via rc3.org)

  • From the Department of Republican hypocrisy, a chart that compares the long-term effects of the estate-tax cuts (that they love) with those of the unemployment benefits (that they hate). Guess which one really screws the deficit??
    (via rebecca's pocket)

  • I hope that a special place in hell is reserved for people with job openings saying that the unemployed need not apply. That should really pull the economy out of its current hole!!

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Quote of the day


One moment it was there, another moment it is gone. One moment we are here, and another moment we have gone. And for this simple moment, how much fuss we make! How much violence, ambition, struggle, conflict, anger, hatred, just for this small moment! Just waiting for the train in a waiting room in a station, and creating so much fuss: fighting, hurting each other, trying to possess, trying to boss, trying to dominate - all the politics. And then the train comes and you are gone forever.
- Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh
(via whiskey river)

Monday, July 19, 2010

Sometimes graphs can be encouraging!

Hard to remember that, in light of all the grim economic news lately, but there are things that appear to be trending in the right direction worldwide, even if the US isn't exactly leading the way...

(via rc3.org)

Everybody needs friends (Monday baby-blogging)

Speck sleeps on top of a heap of stuffed animals, most of which she never plays with at any other time (although the oldest got some carry-around time in early days). Here she demonstrates her ability to hold them all in her arms at once, tucking the droopers back in like a mother hen...

little girl, gritting her teeth as she squeezes her half-dozen or so sleeping toys
Quick! take the picture while I have them! (27+ months)

close-up of the armload of stuffed animals
A close-up of the pile. From top: Feel-Better Bear, Oscelot (just foot visible) Stubby Bear (originally intended as a back-up for primary bear), Tsah, two elephants on left, mouse nose barely visible in lower-right. (Red bird not visible here, but glimpsed at left above.)


Sunday, July 18, 2010

More on the personhood of children

crying babyAnother very interesting dissection of language and how can reveal underlying bigotry where children are concerned. Acceptable behavior for children is not the same as acceptable behavior for adults, but they're people all the while...

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Wednesday tab dump

Really large number of interesting things in the hopper, but a week of solo parenting means I have neither time nor energy to do them justice. So here they come!

Some things will never change

Fat cats think they deserve all their breaks and that the poor and out of work must deserve their lot too. Maybe Republicans voting against extension of unemployment benefits need a little help in seeing the problem; for empathy they might read this guy's story, or for plain old facts, this graph makes the challenges pretty clear (to those who want to understand, anyway)...

Said hey old man how can you stand to think that way
Did you really think about it before you made the rules
He said, Son

That's just the way it is
Some things will never change
That's just the way it is
Ah, but don't you believe them . . .
- Bruce Hornsby

Friday, July 09, 2010

Security theater

Man, I can't decide among these t-shirts. The whole ineffectual charade of airport security has succeeded in making me (a great lover of exploring the world!) dread travel, and all to accomplish virtually nothing. Does it really even make people feel better?

(via boing boing)

Thursday, July 08, 2010

Holy crap, it's Christmas in July!

cartoon figure with arms raised, saying woot!Can it really be true, that the FDA is finally going to do something about antibiotics in animal feed?!?!? This has been one of my major causes for years (and a reason for supporting the Union of Concerned Scientists), and this misuse of antibiotics is behind the very real health threat posed by drug-resistant diseases in this country and around the world. It's irresponsible that we've let policy lag so far behind scientific warnings -- kudos to the Obama folks for getting changes underway! w0000000000t!!

Wednesday, July 07, 2010

Those crazy innovators

I want some of these: convertible suitcases that allow for use as baggage carts, scooters, and/or chairs, depending on your family conformation and style needs...

Tuesday, July 06, 2010

Rarely seen: Black-and-white shots of Speck

Ok, they were grayscaled from color via Photoshop, but I still like the effect, just for variety. Both come from our recent Poconos expedition, at just short of 28 months of age. Speck enjoyed the lake here, which had such a shallow wading area that she could walk out pretty far without getting too deep...

Speck looks at something in her hand, with lake and canoes in the background
I like the rustic backdrop here.

Filling a bucket with sand and water
Playing with a bucket and shovel...

(In case it's just too traumatic for you, color versions are here and here. Don't worry, color will be back soon!)

Quote of the day


hunched figureThe propagandist's purpose is to make one set of people forget that certain other sets of people are human.
- Aldous Huxley,
novelist (1894-1963)
(via A.W.A.D.)

Friday, July 02, 2010

Why are there people there?

This photo of the oil-filled waves off the Alabama coast is really striking -- it would be enough to make me feel fearful of nature if I lived there, I think. I understand that if you live or vacation in affected areas, you still want to get outside, but wouldn't you pick the pool over oil-lump-studded beach for your kids to swim in??? It boggles the mind.

(via BagNewsNotes and dooce, respectively)

Thursday, July 01, 2010

Hope on the horizon for the orally fearful

That is, if a trip to a dentist fills you with fear of drills and other painful intervention, you may thrill to the news that a new passive treatment induces tooth cells to regrow damaged tooth surface, so that neither drilling nor filling are required. Still a couple years of clinical testing to go, but could be pretty neat (and greatly lower the stress levels of jobs in dentistry as well)...

(via kottke)

Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Poem of the day


Weeding

After a rain,
the weeds yield
to the gentlest tug,
bent grass blades
even the deep-rooted dock
& the brittle rhizomes
of brome grass:

they let go, they give up
their fistfuls of dirt after
a few hard shakes,

& for at least
one morning out of
all those that are left to me

it feels as if I am winning
this tug-of-war
with the earth.
- Dave Bonta
(@ via negativa)

Made me laugh, made me cry (and think)

For the laugh: this skewering of the Bride industry. Bring on the catty! And confusion of lackeys!
(via a guest blogger at dooce)

For the serious: Why I returned my iPad -- remembering the value of letting your mind wander...
(via rebecca's pocket)

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Frustrated and helpless

I used to find myself furious and worried about a lot of things under the Bush Administration, but now I find the areas of continuity with the Obama era even more worrisome, because they indicate institutionalization of a bunch of things that are terrible for our nation, economy, character. It's starting to get me down, and maybe unloading some tabs will help...

Monday, June 28, 2010

To Speck at 28 months

Speck, sitting on some city steps in colorfun shortsWell, the changes since I last wrote seem more of degree than of kind, as you get more and more talkative, more imaginative, more dextrous in interacting with your world. You've gone from working the occasional puzzle, with help, to plunging ahead unaided (although still requiring an audience) through 48-piece jigsaw puzzles and 16-piece cube puzzles. Your small small animal toys (frogs have the fore right now) not only go to playgrounds, but visit a block-based Please Touch museum, have time-outs and repent their ways, and take turns in more elaborate scenarios. You went through a burst of singing all the time, including revealing that you knew the words to all three lullabyes that Mom sings to you (by singing along) and lots of songs that have come up in classes you've taken and elsewhere; these outbursts are less frequent now, but a window into how much you're storing up in your caches.

Speck helping Daddy do some baking, complete with aprons and measuring spoonsLinguistically, you also continue to blossom. You've gotten comfortable with counting into the higher ranges, although some of the special words between 11 and 20 can get dropped. You will speak into a telephone, although the conventions haven't penetrated, so the person on the other end of the line is treated to a non-sequitur rush of your thoughts of that instant, to confusing (and endearing) effect. You're also using a range of pronouns now (although not always as we might), you say your *full* name and can recite our address, and you have a host of favorite turns of phrase that capture your current interests: "somebody else's turn!" or "sort of nummy" or "that seems pretty fun." People can be quite amazed, when you finally get over your quiet/observant phase and let the narration and direction pour forth. Equally striking, during a recent car drive you started asking about all kinds of things in the passing scenery, critiquing the traffic conditions, and challenging nearby cars to race -- should be fun to see your engagement and curiosity continue to develop.

pansies in a purple double vaseLet's see... what else? You took a great interest in clocks during the last few months -- prompted, in part, by wanting to know when a parent would be coming to gather you up from other childcare -- to the point that I had to redraw a chalk clock that had proudly gone number-free for many years. There was also an odd period during the spring when you decided that you didn't like playgrounds, bringing a favorite set of outings and explorations to a halt. Luckily (in time for a major heat wave) you rediscovered the joys of such places, and now insist on going outside every day. You are also a great friend to all pansies, and would insist on picking some from every pot we passed; we made a deal to only pick closing-up flowers from other people's pots (and you quickly learned to tell those from the still-closed buds!), although you could take open ones from our own plants -- either way, you kept your vase full for as long as pansies were blooming.

We've also reached some developmental milestones that sort of sneaked up on us. First, you are now potty-trained, after a 3-day marathon weekend with both parents at home, potties on every floor, and lots of celebratory dancing. Still a diaper for naps and overnight, but you're pretty reliable now in asking for the bathroom when you need it, whether we're at home or abroad, and we've even gotten over our own paranoia about leaving the house again. Less exciting, we've hit some major stretches of "terrible two" behavior, with your diet collapsing down back of Speck's head, with pipe curls! (maybe 75% PB&J sandwiches at times!), battles over getting dressed, procrastinative games at bedtime, and generally more flip-outs that seem immune to both time-outs and reason. Luckily, they seem to cycle off again before our heads explode, so we'll probably all weather the storms. You also had your first real illness right after your second birthday, with constant drippy nose and coughing -- befriending a penguin-shaped humidifier helped, as did a Feel Better Bear from the pharmacy which came with your ear-infection prescription. All that is well behind us now though.

On the up side, this period has seen you even more affectionate, with lots of games acting as excuses to climb into our laps or snuggle, or running away so you can tell Mom to "try not to cry" and then console her, and with most departures requiring a "hug-n-kiss" from both parents. Plus, we now make a family sandwich before you head up to bed, and you like to point out that you are the peanut butter and jelly. Indeed, little Pookster, you are the PB&J that tasties up our bread -- thanks for sticking with us!

Speck on Daddy's shoulders, looking back over her shoulder at our doorway


Sunday, June 27, 2010

Who to blame

Ampersand offers a nutshell take on recent financial indignities and the response of the American public to them. Sigh.

Thursday, June 24, 2010

Three bits on children/childhood

  • A New York Times piece reports on the spreading school policy to discourage best friends at just about all ages. I understand teaching tolerance and coexistance in a variety of ways, but this seems like a really misguided effort that, at minimum, removes a bullwark against social insecurity and, at worst, deprives kids of the chance to learn the skills needed for relationship-building at any deeper level. As Medley says, another experiment with the re-engineering of childhood, effects unknown...

  • A convincing argument against agressive tickling play. The points made here seem obvious in retrospect, but it's easy to get taken in by giggles and forget about personal boundaries and power differentials...

  • A nice story: Dad lets 4-year-old play Grand Theft Auto, a game that encourages deranged violence, and the kid finds a way to be happy and helpful there instead. Yay!

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Firing offenses

I'm with Digby on this one: McCrystal needs to go. Somebody who says that their biggest issue is with the "wimp in the Whitehouse" is somebody who can't be trusted to follow the chain of command.
I can't speak for anyone else, but my belief that he should fire McCrystal or at least accept his resignation (which is as far as he should go to appease the military) has nothing to do with any skepticism of the war. It has to do with respect for the constitutional requirement that the military be subordinate to the civilian executive. The military has been acting more and more as a rogue political faction with its own power base for quite some time. No president of either party should allow that (although it must be said that Bush's fetishizing of "the Generals on the ground" and The Man Called Petraeus has contributed greatly to this problem).

This isn't something to play with. Obama should accept his resignation.
The press will spin any decision as some kind of Democratic failing, so he might as well do the thing that is right on principle and shows some self-respect.
(via a Medley tweet)

Update: Well, he did it! That's heartening, although I don't expect things to change much as a result...

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Quote of the day


But the mind always
wants more than it has -
one more bright day of sun,
one more clear night in bed
with the moon; one more hour
to get the words right; one
more chance for the heart in hiding
to emerge from its thicket
in dried grasses - as if this quiet day
with its tentative light weren't enough,
as if joy weren't strewn all around.
- Holly Hughes
from
Mind Wanting More
(via whiskey river)

Monday, June 21, 2010

...but they're *our* crooks!

No amount of violence, irresponsibility, and coverup can keep us from using Blackwater for military security. Of course, when there's another international incident, it will be all Who Could Have Foreseen?!? grrrr....

Father's Day tribute

A few shots of Speck having fun with Daddy in Philadelphia's Rittenhouse Square. She got some spinning and other giggle-creation, in between bouts of hopping and bouncing around the stones... (photos actually from a warm spell in early May, so 26+ months)

giggles after a good spin

Speck covers her eyes while spinning over Dad's head

grins in Dad's arms

And this last one is a tribute to Dad's patience and creativity in making ever-new worlds for Speck's frogs (previously turtles or monkeys) to explore! More, more!

rubbery frogs in a bristle block palace


Friday, June 18, 2010

Spiffy bits

A bunch of things that have tickled or intrigued me over the last few days...
  • A neat historical fact: Martha's Vineyard was once home to an original deaf culture that was fully integrated into everyday life (and later contributed to the development of ASL). Amazing!

  • Roger Ebert gives a lyrical description of Twitter, the art being done there, the connections it forms around the world, how it won him over from critic to addict.

  • Rachel Maddow gives the alternative oil-disaster speech we all wish that Obama had given, including actual policy changes! Amen.

  • How could one ever explain the ending of DADT policy? Really, it's really not that hard, at least if you're in the habit of talking about differences among people as part of the spectrum of natural and behavioral variation among folks...

  • An entertaining art series from the New Yorker, in which the US map is scrambled to various effects.
    (via kottke)

  • Finally, I'm inspired by this piece of self-boosterism, but I also seem unlikely to actually compose my own equivalent. So I'll let her @$#! amazingness speak for me.
Have a great weekend, all, and a Happy Father's Day, if appropriate!

Thursday, June 17, 2010

Health tip of the day: automobile care!

stethoscopeTrying to save a few pennies by filling your windshield washer reservoir with water instead of specialized wiper fluid? You're setting yourself up for Legionnaires' Disease and other infections that happily breed in all that stagnant water. It's just not worth it.

(via Follow Me Here)

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

More crappy news, various kinds

Oil gushing into the Gulf...On women, men, and roles thereof...On economic and planning tomfoolery...
  • Paul Krugman appears to be a lone voice in the wilderness these days, pointing out that faux fears about inflation are leading to foolhardy recommendations to trim stimulus spending and other measures that are needed to get us out of this economic mess. The illogic is truly befuddling -- more on the austerity craziness here.

  • Also in the crazy arithmetic department, the Conventional Wisdom that there won't be enough workers to support the elderly in a few years, whether via Social Security or whatever other tax-derived programs, can be shown to be baseless. Not that such frames are amenable to evidence...

  • Policy versus no policy as roulette wheels -- an inspired way to look at long-term risks that can't be exactly calculated. Ok, we don't know *precisely* how much the Earth will warm if we don't do anything about greenhouse gasses, but we know that the likely range is much higher than the likely range if we intervene. A graphic that conveys a lot.
Update: Should also include here these Things We Do To Ourselves...
  • Terrorists figure out how to get America to attack itself: leave harmless, "suspicious" bags around. I only wish it were the Onion, but it's clearly the sad fact. Every time I travel, I see how thoroughly the terrorists have "won"...

  • Bottled and Sold, a book about the bottled water industry, reveals yet again the stupidity that is our choosing (unregulated, often filthy) bottled water over (closely regulated, generally good) tap water, just because we're so susceptible to marketing/fads. Grrrrr!

  • We now schedule so many CT scans that they've become our major radiation exposure source, and may be adding up to a significant cancer risk for a portion of the US population. Apparently doctors never think to see how many of these things you've had -- keep track for yourself!!
    (via a Medley tweet)

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Yeah, what *he* said...


I know I've been a bit cranky lately, but it's just rather distressing to see that even with Democratic control elites just aren't up to the task of governing this county in an adequate fashion. I didn't have high hopes for a great liberal revolution, but I did expect, well, better.
- Atrios

Groggy "Monday"

Had a fun long weekend in the woods, which managed to be restorative despite the busy presence of one toddler and one baby. Still, today is going mostly like this for me:

Speck asleep in the stroller at 27 months

Onward into regular life! With caffeine!

Quote of the day


To act on the light one has is almost the only way to more light.
- C.S.Lewis
(via the CSLewisDaily Twitter feed)

Thursday, June 10, 2010

Wait, Democrats can play offense?

Instead of waiting for the GOP to find a way to spin repeal of healthcare reform as a positive idea (and define the fall media narrative), Democrats are actually getting out ahead on the issue, starting a nationwide advertising and event campaign to highlight benefits of the reform bill and challenge Republicans to defend their plan to take that all away. "A plan only insurance companies would love!" Go, DNC!

Wednesday, June 09, 2010

High and low art

My day was just made by this architectural analysis of couch-cushion forts (a second page of critiques is also available).
photo of a kid peering out of a couch cushion fortDrawing from the saw-tooth roof structures of industrial Europe, the orthogonal volume cleverly employs a swing hinge access door, popularized by the mid-century modern masters
No really, worth reading all of them. Quite good fun.

(via boing boing)

Tuesday, June 08, 2010

Our brains as collaborators in care

Doctors are trying to figure out how to use the placebo effect to make medicine less costly and less dangerous, while potentially just as effective.
But according to advocates, there’s enough data for doctors to start thinking of the placebo effect not as the opposite of medicine, but as a tool they can use in an evidence-based, conscientious manner. Broadly speaking, it seems sensible to make every effort to enlist the body’s own ability to heal itself--which is what, at bottom, placebos seem to do. And as researchers examine it more closely, the placebo is having another effect as well: it is revealing a great deal about the subtle and unexpected influences that medical care, as opposed to the medicine itself, has on patients.
How to dispense "sugar pills" while continuing to uphold ethical guidelines and treating patients as collaborators is the question that still needs addressing. Will be interesting to see the (essentially sociology) experiments that are designed to address how to make this possible! Already, the insights into the substantial effects of good doctoring are powerful...

(via Follow Me Here)

Saturday, June 05, 2010

Agog

This story just blows my mind. So many ways it is wrong.
Still think that all your racist legislation isn't having any local effects, AZ?
(via a Medley tweet)

Update: a nice response from Roger Ebert to this same craziness.
(via rc3.org)

Thursday, June 03, 2010

Creeping crud

BP sign splattered with mud(?)I don't know which is worse, the complete ecological disaster that this gushing oil well has created -- the latest being that the oil stream is going to whip around Florida and poison the entire Atlantic coast -- or the completely half-assed, amoral approach that BP has taken to addressing it -- from doubling the mess with poisonous chemicals, to maximixing their profit by keeping most of their fleet busy doing something else, to prioritizing shareholder dividends over the welfare of the rest of the nation. (Plus sending their first responders to get liability releases and keep-quiet notices all over the coast.) Nobody winning here...

(first link via Medley tweet, last via Atrios)

Wednesday, June 02, 2010

Quote of the day


A child kicks its legs rhythmically through excess, not absence, of life. Because children have abounding vitality, because they are in spirit fierce and free, therefore they want things repeated and unchanged. They always say, Do it again; and the grown-up person does it again until he is nearly dead. For grown-up people are not strong enough to exult in monotony. But perhaps God is strong enough… It is possible that God says every morning, Do it again, to the sun; and every evening, Do it again, to the moon. It may not be automatic necessity that makes all daisies alike: it may be that God makes every daisy separately, but has never got tired of making them. It may be that He has the eternal appetite of infancy; for we have sinned and grown old, and our Father is younger than we.
– G. K. Chesterton
(via A Mindful Life)

Tuesday, June 01, 2010

Blatant baby-blogging

Because I have Recent Cute Photos, and because I'm feeling all proud at Speck's new prowess with things potty-related. Git yur dance on!

serious in her crib at 27 months
A serious face at 27 months.
(No flash means real coloration!)

grinning in crib with bears
Big grin with teddy bears
(beloved Tsah on right, and Feel Better Bear on left)


Tuesday of Too Many Tabs

Here's some neat stuff I've bumped into lately. Apologies where the referer has been lost...
  • A flight attendant and travel magician shows how to pack for a ten-day trip in a carry-on bag. Rolling your clothes achieves much more compaction than I would have thought possible.

  • InfoLadies of Bangladesh bring a host of instruction to rural villages, using Web-derived information to improve people's every day lives. Fantastic.

  • Hate being put on hold at customer service? A new company makes the call for you, and rings your phone when a live representative finally picks up.

  • Piling up physical clutter "for the kids"? Here's some advice to give up that collection in favor of real memories and a few choice items.
    (via a Medley tweet)

  • Finding your life mentally cluttered? Maybe you need to add in some uni-tasking practice to get an upper hand on your mental space at work and at home. We certainly seem to prefer busy-ness to mindfulness, and I think we might be surprised how satisfying the reverse can be...
    (via kottke)
Edit: More "decluttering" thoughts: Twelve things the world should toss out; from fine print to obsession with chastity, these seem like good dreams...

Friday, May 28, 2010

A small blow for sanity

Well, imagine that. Ok, the whole defense bill still has to come up for a vote, but come on, are the Republicans really going to vote against that?? I guess that somebody finally heard that the American people just aren't worked up about this issue anymore...

Thursday, May 27, 2010

Clean geeky fun

soap that looks like a bacterial cultureThis petri dish soap is so great that I wish I still had a bunch of active scientist friends to buy it for. Ah, my days of smearing bacteria (at least, from a pipette, not a toddler nose) are well behind me . . .

(via boing boing)

Kids and restaurants -- avoid the children's menu?

That's what this article advises.
Children’s menus aim too low, he argues — they’re a parenting crutch.
Of course, what they're really talking about here is the Family Meal, an ideal to which I definitely aspire, but which is currently hampered by the fact that Speck heads up for her pre-bed routine around 6pm. Still, we generally try to get her to try whatever we're eating, but with some peanut butter and crackers at the bottom of the bag just in case. I'd been looking forward to an era when she would eat some of these common Kid Foods -- maybe I will up my aspirations about getting her to Try New Things instead.

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Every second you're getting older

snip from the TMBG video of 'Older' Apparently it's a rampant phenomenon, and inescapable.
At least I've got company!

(via NowThis)

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

It's time for another istallment of Good News, Bad News!

Because there's just too much of the latter and desperately little of the former...

Good News:
BP might actually get some comeuppance for its negligent drilling practices in the Gulf and many other places. Is it too much to hope?

Bad News:
Dispersants being used to control the spilled oil may be poisoning people who are helping with the clean-up. And presumably the rest of the ecosystem too...
(via Atrios)

Good News:
Legislation repealing the stupid Don't Ask, Don't Tell policy is about to be introduced, with support from both White House and House Democrats. No idea what it's fate might be, especially if it's framed as an amendment to something else, but it's a start!

Bad News:
The war is making you poor -- and that's before we look at what we've already spent. Does anybody even think about plans for withdrawel anymore? Are we really learning to live in a perpetual state of conflict, heedless of the price?

Good News:
Mark Twain's autobiography is about to be released this fall, after being held 100 years from his death, as he requested. There's bound to be some fun in there!
(via boing boing)

Pure Silliness:
  • Tragically familiar: the sneaky hate spiral
    Eventually, the sum of the small annoyances begins to exceed your capacity for patience and rational thought. All it would take to send you over the edge into a bottomless pit of angry hysteria is just one more tiny, little thing...
    I like to take my misanthropy into solitude, preferably with trees. This is tragically incompatible with my current Life With Toddler...

  • A map of Europe redrawn to reflect the lessons and injustices of history.
    In Britain's place should come Poland, which has suffered quite enough in its location between Russia and Germany and deserves a chance to enjoy the bracing winds of the North Atlantic and the security of sea water between it and any potential invaders.
    (via kottke)
Thought-Provoking:
A recent book ponders some cultural differences between conservative and liberal regions of the country, and notes some striking assumptions that often cause us to talk past each other. They write: In red America, families form adults [early pregnancy and marriage, and teens grow up because of adult demands]; in blue America, adults form families [teens are encouraged to be "smart" about sex and to wait to start families after they finish their educations]. Interesting lens for other conflicts, and the reviewer notes some other implications about our evolving society and how it treats these two paths.

Friday, May 21, 2010

Friday film fun

Baby fun, that is -- cute babbling kid singing little kid songs... Have a good weekend, all!


This one is comprehensible (ABCs) but rather subdued in affect.


This one (Old MacDonald) is brief but full of Speck personality
(and eagerness to get behind the camera to view the result).

In every white cloud, a darker lining

Financial reform passes the Senate! and it's more progressive than anybody had imagined possible. And yet...
Historians will probably conclude that the package of reforms was surprisingly modest given the depth and severity of the 2008-09 financial crisis. A harsher historical judgment might find that the political and economic power wielded by the financial industry in the late 20th and early 21st centuries was so extensive that it could weather a near total collapse of the system without having to yield its power or privilege.
-- David Kurtz (at Talking Points Memo)
Looks that way from my seats too...

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Quote of the day


Childhood is not a bad smell you get to hold your nose around until it passes. It is an iteration of humanity.
- Sybil Vane
(as part of this post at Bitch, Ph.D.)

Economy -- still sick, not recovering fast

ack!It's not just oil building up in the Gulf that's getting folks down; the economy is still tottering in the face of both unemployment and continued foreclosures. All that chat about the folly of subprime lending just hid the fact that many good-credit folks got in way over their heads. This statistic is rather grim:
One out of seven U.S. households with a mortgage ended the first quarter late on mortgage payments or in the foreclosure process, although the pace has ebbed now that unemployment appears to have peaked, the Mortgage Bankers Association said on Wednesday.
One in seven! whew. It's gonna be a while before new buyers appear for all those houses...

Monday, May 17, 2010

Crappy health, crappy news, crap crap crap

Man, what *really* chews holes in your day/week is combinatorial childcare illness/breakdown. Sigh. Anyway, here are some things I feel compelled to blog, while simultaneously not wanting to blog any of them...
  • The Obama Administration is working to undermine Miranda protections, even for U.S. citizens. All of these guys seem to think that nobody scarier than themselves will ever be in charge, and thus they are cavallier with the things that protect average folks who might find themselves in the wrong place at the wrong time. For my part, this makes me wonder who the Good Guys are anymore.

  • More and more folks want me to join Facebook, even as it's getting less and less private as time passes. The difference between the first and last images there seems to me to represent the difference between what people *think* they're getting from social networks (the ability to socialize only with the people they want to) and what they're *actually* getting (more and more of their information made available to every search engine and third-party business interest). Appalling.

  • Pediatricians come out in favor of a minimalist female genital mutilation procedure. Ok, better than a radical clitorectomy and the like, but it's hard for me to be excited by any casual endorsement of "nicking"...

  • The media keeps talking about the recovery underway, but it's striking how little impact it has had on unemployment, which is not only at high rates but also for shocking durations. Eventually the carnage on Main Street is going to trickle up to Wall Street, however well insulated...

  • Just to top off all the chipperness here, a little cartoon that captures the way that I take Arizona's immigration craziness personally -- not because it affects *me* right now, but because it reflects badly on what we think our nation is about. Not pretty times.

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

How to chew holes in your day

I'm not generally too consumed by tower defense-type games, but this one has pushed my obsessive button to the extreme, maybe because of the additional elements (some magic, some multiround investment, etc.). Almost forgot about the 5 zillion other things I should be doing with my time. Expect it will happen again...

(via that pesky kottke)

Thursday, May 06, 2010

Quote of the day


I googled "woman cave" and got this message: "Did you mean: man caves?" At least it didn’t say, "Make me a sandwich."
- Amanda Marcotte
(here)

Wednesday, May 05, 2010

Happy thoughts!

Here is some general cuteness and signs of spring (all from around 26 months of Speckage). If you can't get outside today, at least you can enjoy a little vicarious seasonality...

Speck with flowered dress and Easter basket, in church yard
Here's some cute kid all decked out for some serious Easter egg hunting.

Speck in spotted pantsuit with borrowed bear
And here's that same kid looking alarmingly sophisticated!

Construction paper tree filled with white and pink (tissue paper) blossoms, by Speck
And here's my favorite of the recent spate of crafts made around our house.


Well, thanks for *that*!

As if your worries about the oil spill (and/or the state of the nation/world) weren't already bad enough...

Ahem.

(via a Medley tweet)

Tuesday, May 04, 2010

Bits about that oil that's gushing all over the place

oil-soaked bird head graphic
  • This cartoon strikes me as capturing the visceral feelings that I have in watching the oil slick widen, the coast get engulfed, and the cleaner-uppers wave their hands.
    (via a dailyKos diary)

  • But this cartoon maybe gets at the deeper scariness, which involves all those reassurances that Nothing Will Ever Go Wrong (and that we can keep on Not Thinking About where our energy comes from).
    (via a dailyKos diary)

  • Even scarier, and something I hadn't thought to ask, or seen anybody else discuss, is what exactly BP is pumping into the water to contain the oil -- should we really take for granted that those chemicals are less dangerous than what they're mopping up?
    (via Atrios)

  • On the more thought-provoking front is this question about whether we (the larger human species, and maybe the earth too) really win if the current spill quenches interest in futher drilling off the US coast, since drilling elsewhere is so much more ecologically damaging. (Though, of course, There not Here...)

  • Meantime, Rush Limbaugh takes the occasion to clarify that he's a putz by assuming that drilling miles into the ocean floor is a natural-type phenomenon. Can we take away that guy's mic already??

Monday, May 03, 2010

Quote of the day


Facebook is a conditioning system... that provides intermittant social reward for foolish disclosure.
- from this video about privacy